I’ve heard of this from one of my colleague previously..everyone should have think that pregnancy is a normal thing that should be go through by every women..but nobody is realizing that pregnancy brings the new mum at risk.

Pregnant women are have the prodsibilty of getting a maternal illness like diabetes and hypertension which might keep still after givebirth.. During pregnancy,should avoid infection by nit handling cat litter and taking raw food..bleeding might happen during pregnancy and should seek for help if heavy bleeding occurs.

After the pregnancy,post-natal blue will happen to new mum if there are lack of support from family members both mentally and phisically. Post natal blue can caused mental illness to the new mums if no immediate care given.

So for those father to be and husbands,please do take care of your wife during and after prfnancy..don’t leave any regrets…

Today is monday and its beginning of the new week again. Woke up early in the morning and rushed to work like usual.

My hubby still sleeping when I left the house. Today is his second off and he have free time for his own. He slept so tightly and I felt so jeleous that he can sleep till anytime he like, yet I have to wake up for work and starts my day with a bluez mood.

We are keep turning like Merry Go Round and doing the same things everyday look forward to weekend. The cycle keep turning and the new week started. This is what we call as LIFE.

Last Saturday,me and hubby went to orchard road to buy iPhone for my brother. We reached there quite late and rushed.

We walked around the Orchard area and enjoy the weekend night there. We walked up to Centerpoint, Sommerset and planned to have dinner there. My hubby seem not so interested with all the restaurant there. I did not dare to suggest Japanese food because my hubby never want to try it.

So we walked looking for restaurant. Behind Centerpoint,there are a row of restaurants. There are serving Italian, Indian, Japanese and others. He seem not interested too but then he choose the Japanese restaurant. Since he was suggesting Japanese food,I asked him to go to Ichiban.

It was his first time stepping to Japanese restaurant with me. He not trying too much veriety, but still some achievement. He tried quite a few sushi and he likes it. So,I think it’s a good start. Next time can have Japanese food for our dinner. My next target is to bring him for Korean dinner.

Last Saturday me and hubby went to Natas Fair at Singapore Expo hall 4&5. We were planned to have a look and make some comparison for our honeymoon trip. We went there after our lunch and paid an entrance fee of $3 per person.

I thought that Natas Fair will have lesser visitor this year because of bad economy condition nowadays. But I was wrong. Natas Fair still have lots of people queing to go in and most of them were making a booking for coming holiday.

After compared so many travel agents in Singapore,finally we decided to go with Genting Holiday Travel. It’s a small travel agent,but heard that they have good service. We paid the deposit and took some free gift. Besides,there was free winter hat from Korean Tourism Board as well.

I believe that every women does loves their children and have develop a very strong motherhood through out the ten months of pregnancy. But sometimes things doesn’t turn out as what supposed to be.

Many cases of the motherhood action that shock us deeply. There have been a few cases in recent years regarding the shocking tragedy of motherhood.

Recently there was a case where mother strangling three of her newborns and sentenced to jail. Few years back, a case where mother drowning her five children on a bathtub.

According to some of the study, such behavior is often due to depression. This behaviour often triggered by chemical reaction in the brain which cannot be control.

This irrational behaviour can happen to any mother who burdened with pre or post natal stress. Full physical and mental support needed during pregnancy and after giving birth. If pre or post natal stress spotted, medical professional advice needed immediately.

Woke up early in the morning, get prepared with the sun-block and swimming attire. We went for breakfast together with another couple. It was a great morning and fresh air.

After breakfast,we went back to our room to have a short rest after and take our snorkeling gear. We were again out from the resort by boat provided,heading to the marine park. It’s more like a beach type,we were snorkeled there. There were lots of colourful fishes. Many of the people ready with their bread to feed the fishes.

After that,we went back to resort and took our time for shower. We met up with our friends for lunch and spend our own leasure time. Around 4 pm,me and hubby went down to the beach.

We spent a great afternoon fooling around at the beach.

We are back from our short trip 2 days ago together with another couple. Redang is a very nice and relaxing place. But it was a long and tiring bus journey. We were on the road for 9 hours, continued with taxi and finally the ferry. We departed on the previous night at 10.30 pm and reached there the next day around 11 am.

We checked in and went for lunch,our snorkeling activity begun right after that. It was a very new experince to me. We went down to the sea with the life jacket and snorkeling’s gogles. I was very shocked when I realized it was a deep sea,I have nothing to step on.

I was hanged on to the boat’s ladder for quite sometime. Finally,I have the courage to let go the ladder and swim to the other side.

We went back to the resort and had our BBQ dinner. It was really amazing day. We went to bed very early as we were tired after the very first snorkeling.

It’s been 60 days since our wedding. We are both busy with our work everyday and not much time for eachother. We are bounded by so many commitment in life.

But I do feel good that I’ve found a great husband. We are not live like in drama,saying “I love u” everyday…but I can feel his care once in awhile..

Now we are busy preparing and planning for coming honeymoon..going for a winter honeymoon kinda troublesome..so many things to prepare..I think my hubby have to prepare for big expense lo..hehe

Me and hubby are going for our Redang Island trip in 3 days. We are book the room with a promotional package which includes meals and snorkelling activities. Both of us are usually went for relaxing at the resort and seldom involves in any water activities. I have decided to take part in snorkelling activities this coming trip.

The most important thing is sun-block for body and face. I don’t want to get sun burn definately. 2 sets of swimming suits for snorkelling and beach activities. Besides,another important thing is soothing gel. Bring along the soothing gel for precaution purpose. In case we are get sun burned,but hopefully it won’t happen.

Yesterday I’ve applied my leave for our trip home on 1st to 6th of October. we just went back for our wedding last june..but because of my brother’s graduation,we going back to attend his graduation ceremony and take family photo.

Anyway,we are not going back this coming Chinese new year because we going for our honeymoon. If we are not going back this October,I might need to wait till end of next year to go home. So, it’s good to have this arrangement.

I’m so happy as my hubby can make it to go back together with me..pity him don’t have any leave left.. :p Flight booked,will take direct flight from Singapore to Jakarta.